28 Nov 2015
Working mothers life is really difficult as they go to work, but they still have the responsibility of home, and if there are children at home it multiplies. At the same time they also fight to succeed in a workplace that demands a lot of physical work and mental concentration depending on the work.
It is commonly increasing for women to work outside the home. Some do it for necessity, others for developing professional interests and to be independent. There is no magic formula to achieve the balance between home and work.
There is good side and the bad side of everything we have in our lives, and the same applies in this situation as well. If your financial condition is not good, and have children at home, it will be difficult to maintain your family as you can’t afford everything. In this situation you can’t help it, and this leaves you to have little time for your family and home.
The greatest risk of mothers who work outside the home is that they get moody gradually because of the hectic schedule, get irritated and are unwilling to share their time with the children. If this happens, it is very important to consider how to make balance between the job and home responsibility. They can consider seeking help in household chores and could hire a babysitter as well.
Children need a caring and concerned mother for their interests to feel happy and valued. The short time available for the children should be compensated by the “quality” of it, and this quality can be defined only by yourself. It’s important for working mothers to spend free time in the best way to their children. That depends on the children’s interest what they like and what not. They should be aware of it.
For working mothers it’s necessary to provide sufficient time to their children to make them feel how important they are for you and it will make you happy moms in return. Maybe it’s good to make the work entertaining together, like shopping, cleaning the house, washing dishes, etc. If you do this, children learn by examples that their mothers give them and may be a good opportunity for communication between mother and child.
Much or little money contribution to the house doesn’t matter, unless the income is vital for the home. The things what matter are more prudent, serene and profound contribution to household welfare. Finally do not forget to ask your spouse to help in finding solutions of the issues.
After all family matters more than a job who will be with you till your last breath when you are old enough